That kind of van looks so sketchy it might as well have "free candy" written on the side, so I don't know if there ever was a not awkward time for a white male to be driving one.
I used to work at this company where like 3 guys took care of basically everything. All but one of them, let's call him Rob, eventually left to better companies. About a month after that, my team had to deal with a pretty big issue and we were having trouble coming up with a solution so this idiot had the brilliant idea to page Rob. As if the poor guy hadn't spent the last month doing the job of 3 people who were already doing the job of a 5 people each. Rob got online, said "Why did you page me?" and immediately left before getting a response. I liked Rob.
Yeah, I fault people for not finding out they're marrying Nazis and then acting surprised. Again, if you believe the bottom line of that is me calling you stupid, that's a you problem.
My, ahem, speech was literally "Find out who you're marrying before you marry them". If what you heard was "everyone else is stupid if they get fooled and I'll never be fooled by anybody", then you might have some introspection to do.
That's different. I'm sure she still holds most of the same values she did when you two got married. Cheating, of course, is awful, but it doesn't touch all aspects of your life so it's much easier to hide. I'm talking about people who end up marrying someone who turns out to be a Nazi or the likes. I find it hard to believe that they didn't know before marrying them.
Steam doesn't let you do that. This is literally what the lawsuit is about.