It's a fair question, but you're probably getting downvoted because you "feel like people are really throwing that term around a lot and it’s kind of concerning". People are throwing the term around a lot because of all the fascism, and the fact that you find the term more concerning than the actual fascism is a bad look.
My first reaction: "whoo, more of these two!"
My second reaction, being only partway through Season 2: "...shit, are they still not together!?"