I had a similar issue with using tail scale, but here the issue was definitely not on the client. My actual DSL connection would reset, multiple times per day. Had the provider come 4 times to investigate the issue, got 3 new routers, they reinstalled the entry point to the house, and fixed an issue in the neighbourhood central point. All to no avail. I ended up purging everything tail scale and hand rolled wireguard. No more issues :/
My worry with this is that it might be super resource heavy and unstable. That's not based on thorough investigation though. I've been eyeing it for my 80gb photo library. How does it work for you?
Thanks, and you're absolutely right on the use of ai for something as important as this (in the meantime I've been reading up on this in more reputable sources). I was simply stunned with the answer and wanted to share how striking the resemblance is with what's going on, but didn't mean to imply it was authoritative.
Nonetheless I'm happy I shared because I probably wouldn't have found those interesting links you shared.
I would greatly appreciate a bit more detail on your setup, is your calibre library simply a folder synced through next cloud?