Yes, but on which instance? Lemmy.ml is not controversy free and Lemmy.world already hosts like 50% of Lemmy alone. I think the only viable option that everyone could agree on would be another instance, but that would just leave us with 3 communities.
I don't have a WiFi antenna, except the ones in my computers. Buying a WiFi antenna online would've taken 2-3 weeks, and I wanted to quickly test how it worked.
Could you perhaps link to the modlogs? I would do it myself but I'm on mobile and am having connection issues.
EDIT: I apperently commented 4 times despite the app saying there was an error posting.
Anyway here's the link to the modlog and part of the comment:
...if anyone attacked my country as Palenstine did Isreal i would not be happy until all the hostages was freed and the ones responsible was dead.
I can see where @jordanlund@lemmy.world was coming from if you interpret "the ones responsible" as all Palestinians it certainly sounds like genocide, however I think you were probably referring to Hamas.
You can use Tailscale, you can access your personal services with it but also expose public services with their Funnels system.
Keep in mind that while the clients are open source, their servers are running proprietary software.