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  • See, I'm going to sound like an old man yelling at a cloud but I feel like having a phone to make school more tolerable isn't the answer. If a kid is having social problems, letting them escape via their phone isn't going to help develop those or avoid bullying. Letting that be the escape is a copout for adults who need to raise and teach the kids how to human.

    If they do have friends and social skills, lunch, long lines, etc. are good times to practice just being present with the people around them, or quietly in their own head. The constant drip line of available distractions is changing our brains, and I don't think it's for the better.

  • Debt utilization is a big part of a credit score. And just getting that down having multiple high limit cards is a strategy.

    I have a really good credit utilization rate, in part because of this. I don't spend money I don't have, because I make enough money to cover my needs, set aside savings for emergencies, and treat myself sometimes. And I'm privileged to have people in my life who educated me about credit, what it actually means, and how it works.

    Because of these privileges, using credit cards has saved me money by earning rewards and not paying interest. But many Americans don't have these privileges, which is why I think it's downright irresponsible and predatory that my combined credit limit is higher than my annual salary. Not home or car loans or whatever, just regular credit cards for regular consumer purchases. That's a life-ruining amount of credit to have available if you haven't been taught how to game the system.

  • Yeah, I don't necessarily agree with the game, but since we're in it, I play it. All of my purchases go on credit cards. But I never spend money I don't have, and I pay the statement balance in full every month so I'm never charged interest. The only time I don't pay the full statement balance is when I buy a new phone since I have the store card with 0% financing. But anything else, never ever ever carry a balance.

    It sucks because it's basically a benefit for people who have good executive functioning and financial literacy, paid for by those who don't. It's a benefit I only get because big banks prey on poor people.

  • I've never taken concerta but I have taken a different SNRI and I'd start to feel like utter shit by the afternoon if I forgot to take it in the morning. I would be way more worried about skipping an SNRI than a stimulant, personally.

    I don't do drug holidays. I know a lot of people do, but I just can't function. It makes sense that when you don't take the medicine that helps you function, it's really hard to function.

  • I use Autokey to automate many, many small things. I have abbreviations I type for words, and phrases and it replaces them for me.

    Yes, stuff like this saves me so much time in the long run. I have shortcut abbreviations I type for my zoom link, bookings link, phone number, email. Generic ticket closing response. Hex codes for colors in my work palette. Even kind of long bits of code when I find myself reusing them frequently.

  • Anyone so convinced of this has never been raped.

    I have in fact encountered a bear in the wild, a mama bear with her cub. They weren't interested in me, just crossing my path trying to get to the river. I stopped walking and started talking so they'd know I was there. They went on their way, I waited a little bit to make sure they weren't coming back, and then I went on mine.

    I've also been raped by a man I thought was my friend.