Children are just cruel in general. I have a giant scar on my stomach from an appendectomy gone very wrong and I used to get made fun of for it in the locker room. They called it my C section scar.
I don't see how you can read through this thread and come to the conclusion that all the people sharing stories of how they've been hurt are incels. This comment section in general has been the most calm, respectful discussion of gender relations I've seen yet.
Basically women expressing they'd be more comfortable in the woods knowing that there's a bear roaming around than knowing there's a random man roaming around
From the context of their comment, I would presume the majority of people who know the term