I only used sync on reddit and that's all I use on lemmy, tried many of the others and they're good but not perfect, for both the closed source and open source projects
this is not a binary situation. you can be a master of one, two, or even more things and still have a broad base.
it's also all relative and honestly just being happy with what you have, both in terms of material things as well as mental skills/knowledge is a good thing. doesn't mean you stop learning or earning but you don't have to be disappointed if you don't get x amount of dollars or a y number of square feet in your house or z number of factoids in your trivia database
man I miss family guy. I'm going to pretend it hasn't jumped the shark and that it ended at like season 3 or after the first chicken fight or whatever twenty years ago
does pixelfed not... uh... federate?