I had this discussion with my wife a few weeks ago. She did that to a work colleague who took offense to it. I explained that that's because her colleague is about 8 years younger than us.
Basically, if the recipient is 35 and under, it's offensive. If they're 40 and older, it's not. Anywhere in between, look for context.
My favorite part about my Dark Urge playthrough is that they often phrase the option as something like, "think about hurting the cat," and that cat was just a dick to me so while I'd never actually hurt the cat, I can certainly think- oops, I just fucking tortured and murdered that cat.
Foundations of Geopolitics. A Russian book by an author with ties to Putin, which describes in detail and in advance everything they've been doing for the last few years, including the invasion of Ukraine and the psyop against America.
Can you recommend a specific one? I'm absolutely certain that I'll prefer real ice cream, but I've never tried vegan ice cream, and maybe someday I will.
When my daughter was born, I was blown away to find that my company offered 16 weeks paternity leave. A couple of weeks before my wife was due, I was talking to a coworker and found that his wife was also pregnant, but he didn't know about our company's parental leave policy. He had only been planning to take a couple of weeks. After we talked I found out he took the whole thing.
That four months was one of the greatest times of my life, getting to know my newborn daughter.
Three years later I was in a different job when my son was born. They offered three days. Six months later I found a new job, and I took an extra month off during the transition, just so I could spend every day with my son.
I don't regret any of that. I can't even imagine what that would feel like. I love my children and love being a dad. This is life. This is all we get.
You can color with a candle.