I know that de-google is the way, but some things are best provided by a company. I dont have time to look after meeting things at home, or email for that matter
I have run Jitsi at work and found it a pain to keep up to date, but your milage may vary.
I have used most video chat things over the last 4 years, the easiest to get into is GoogleMeet. Google also has been the most reliable, I have a GoogleMeet running all day when at home.
What quality is the content?
I have a pi4 running OSMC, kode front end and things are buttery smooth. All content is 1080p or lower as the pi can't handle 4k
Network is a 1gb switch from the mini pc running NFS and homeplugs to get the network from a bedroom to the living room.
I have a motion sensor by the door and home assistant takes a picture and sends a notification when there is motion, it's not perfect but it works fine for me
Will see what I can do, will probably be on https://homelab.horwood.biz/