we never had hair restrictions ... that I bumped up against (even with wild colours) ... and getting detention for non sanctioned clothing was a badge of honor. I basically spent my entire final year in a trench coat, and maybe Columbine helped me out a little bit there, but honestly the whole 90's was basically a class on how to subvert the school dress code for me and my classmates.
but I guess if you lack imagination it could be a bit stifling not being able to get your personality off the rack.
you signed up for pvp, stop crying or move to a role playing server nerd.