I think I'm in a similar situation, and I totally get how your condition affecting others is a way bigger motivator than it affecting yourself. I just wish I could tell my subconscious that I'm actually a friend, as well
Its not a total scam, I know some couples who met on dating apps. However, be aware that as a man your choice is limited. There are about 10 men for every woman on dating apps.
It can work, but honestly I think its easier to get to know people when I'm out and about. This depends on how outgoing you are, though, of course.
What do you mean by pip in any window? I'm assuming you mean picture-in-picture, which doesn't make much sense to me if you can just rearrange the windows?
The connectors were just an example of how manufacturers prefer proprietary solutions because of profit, and how it needs regulation to prevent such things
I think I'm in a similar situation, and I totally get how your condition affecting others is a way bigger motivator than it affecting yourself. I just wish I could tell my subconscious that I'm actually a friend, as well