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  • Love takes many forms. Caring for someone without the expectation of a benefit you want is a form of love. If my wife came down with MS and we could no longer have sex, I would still love her, respect her and admire the mother and life partner that she is. I would also be upset that I couldn't have sex any more.

    I personally would try to figure out the following, with or without professional help:

    • Why is she depressed? She is going through a lot. She is probably scared you are going to abandon her when she needs someone the most. She may also hate the situation that you are in because of her illness. She is also probably angry at the world that she has to suffer this. She is also probably worried for her child and feels guilty that she can't give her more. There are so many feelings she has to process, it may be easier to just shut down.
    • If you remove the expectations of sex with her, would you be willing to stay with her as a caring and respectful partner and mother to your child?
    • You might explore non-monogamy. That's going to be a complicated conversation, but maybe something your wife is willing to explore. Just ensure it takes into consideration all the issues in the first point.

    A good mother and partner is so hard to find. Love can take many forms. Don't feel limited in your choices if you can make other options work out.

  • All this without any citations at all.

    The IBA is a corrupt Russian body that was upset the Russian boxer was defeated. They never released any results or the methodology they used to determine their decision. They were rightly removed from the IOC.

  • We need more instances, but we need to be a lot smarter about the structure. I think we will only be able to grow larger if we make a more intentional separation between topic-based instances and "people-home" instances, so that we can have a better spread of the load.

    I don't know if it would help with load-balancing, but I feel hash tags would be better than communities.

  • I don't know anything about F2FS. I was surprised to see it do so well.

    I imagine for home lab stuff, filesystems usually won't be the bottleneck? Is there any case where a home user might benefit from a faster filesystem?

  • I think the only ones with enough interest to pay for a sub are companies that want more control over what is posted there. I imagine it will be focused on companies wanting a more formal presence on Reddit.

  • As a parent, I have the right to enter my kids' rooms anytime I want. If I don't do it respectfully, it will definitely be intrusive.

    The hotel does have their rights. When they abuse those rights, it becomes intrusive. Rights don't really have anything to do with feeling that someone is being intrusive.