Yep, we have really expensive fashion boutiques on the promenade where I live. Nobody seems to enter and shop there. Ever. There's usually a shopkeeper, female, who sits there all day, adjusting the clothes.
But they don't force you. I installed Pianoteq 8 downloading it from the official site, not the App Store. All it asks is your touchID or the password.
Well, if you don't even try to punish wrong behaviour it's a bit like agreeing with it. Hey son, you did nothing wrong in killing the neighbors. Keep it up, Kyle.
It depends on the tone. Lots of times I called a friend of mine to show him something cool. It was not a command. More like a request, a happy one. But I think her problem can be solved with simple communication: just explain like you did here and you even proposed solutions so you know what to do.
Bono!