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  • I think part of it is maybe people change or are shocked by the realization of the immediate added responsibility, but also remember that you're certainly not going to sleep as much, like ever again. Losing sleep regularly when you had so much control over your sleeping habits is really impactful to your mental state.

    My wife and I didn't really get angry with each other or change our behavior towards each other, but we definitely were much more tired. At the same time though, you have this wonderful little person that you are shaping (that shits and eats ALL the time) - it's a massive change of routine. People inherently don't like change.

    I feel a lot of what you're afraid of stems from this. Just ensure that you both go into it knowing you will need each other to support each other. Do it as a team, share the responsibilities, and truly enjoy those moments because they go by SO fucking fast.

    Treat it like a marathon and not a sprint. Compete with each other to be the first to apologize and diffuse the situation when things get heated. Marriage isn't easy, but it can be rewarding to share that part with your better half.

    I hope you figure out how to weather your storm! It's an amazing thing to see them grow up and to be there every step of the way as a team.

  • This should be higher up. OP clearly learned a lesson here but one larger lesson most everyone can learn is that neodymium magnets aren't the only kind of magnets. Especially when high temperature performance is needed. Samarium Cobalt magnets are much better suited for high temperature and corrosive applications. Plus if I remember correctly they've been around longer.

    Most neodymium loses it's magnetism at 200-230C. Some Samarium Cobalt can retain their magnetic properties all the way up to 350C or higher grades up to 500C (1022F)

    I nerded out on this a few years ago when I made a magnetic thermal blanket for my pellet smoker and experienced the same thing. Samarium Cobalt did the trick in my application.

  • I'm really bad about buying new games at launch where I like the franchise and getting burned (looking at you bf2042).

    However with all of the stupid politics, tariffs, and recession coming in the US, I'm sure the hell not buying this at $80, even if I'm a long term borderlands fan. I have way too many games in my library I should be playing/finishing anyway.

    I hope others speak with their wallets as well.

  • The world is a better place without her in it. Plus she embodied the concept of FAFO. She will always be a traitor. Nothing will ever change that and history will not be kind to her or her stupid ass political party.

  • There's also a similar service for renting books through your e-reader called Libby. On kobo their Overdrive service uses Libby for the same end result - renting books from your local library on your digital reader. And it's free!