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  • If Biden had been up there saying that about a political opponent … it would make headlines all over the world.

    It's like the "only Democrats have agency" thing.

    When Democrats fuck up we're like wow they really screwed up, look at these bad choices, they're fucked up.

    When Republicans fuck up we're just like well yeah that's what they do. You don't get mad at the sun for setting or a fire burning. Sometimes we act like they're just immutable forces of nature instead of human jerks.

    We don't really hold Republicans to any standards.

  • I've been stuck on this thought that people making decisions are often idiots.

    We're sort of told that management is smart. That big business leaders are visionaries. If someone's the director of engineering they're probably smart right?

    No. They're just people. People that have the skills to get promoted, but those aren't the same skills to do anything else.

    I think it would matter less if there was more competition and more stakes. If some business puts idiots in charge and the whole company dies, okay. But instead we have Google just shitting the bed for years, and there aren't consequences.

    This is a capitalist hell

  • Tech companies don’t really give a damn what customers want anymore.

    Ed Zitron wrote an article about how leadership is business idiots. They don't know the products or users but they make decisions and get paid. Long, like everything he writes, but interesting

    https://www.wheresyoured.at/the-era-of-the-business-idiot/

    Our economy is run by people that don't participate in it and our tech companies are directed by people that don't experience the problems they allege to solve for their customers, as the modern executive is no longer a person with demands or responsibilities beyond their allegiance to shareholder value.

  • In one of my old groups, I'd usually verify the player and I understood each other , and they understood the likely consequences. Like, "You can shoot her, but remember this is her club, with her friends , and she's a vampire so she probably won't die. But if you want to roll, it's at -4 from her Celerity you've seen her use."

    One player was always like "you never let me do anything!"

    I was like you can do it, but I don't want you to be surprised and mad if there are consequences.

    Another player, by contrast, would listen to me clarify what was likely to happen, and be like "cool bro let's do it.". We still talk about the time his character jumped out a 20 story window to save his friend's girlfriend. Great player. Took a lot of damage, as warned, but lived.

  • If I was raising kids, I absolutely would not want to do it in the suburbs. It's isolating and limiting. I was always so jealous of the kids I knew that lived in the city. They could do things. I was stuck indoors , or walking for like 90 minutes to get anywhere.

  • I do not miss driving. Public transit forever.

    But when I did drive, after my reckless youth, I'd usually just chill in the right lane. I don't care. Fly by at 120mph. I'll be here going with the flow of traffic, or about the speed limit if I'm alone.

    I do remember one time in the suburbs when I was visiting my parents, I was driving to the grocery store. It's a short drive (because it's the suburbs, you can't safely walk to the supermarket), no highways. About 10 minutes to get there from driveway to parking lot. Some guy behind me started absolutely losing his shit, screaming, and passed me dangerously by driving onto the shoulder. He pulled into the same parking lot. I parked well away from him because I didn't want to deal with crazy.

    I'm not good at math, but if the entire trip was about 10 minutes, I feel like the time difference between me going about the speed limit and me speeding is, at most, what, 2 minutes? 5 minutes? The guy probably took more than 5 minutes off his life being so angry.

  • I know it's not for everyone, but for me I feel like buying music I like directly from the artist/label or via bandcamp has been a better experience. Now I have a library of DRM free music, and I know the musicians got a better cut.

  • Yeah I was going to say. It's like that "no take only throw" meme with the dog. Capitalists want us to spend money, but they don't want to pay us enough money. Just spend what we don't have.

    If I had a nice job I'd be out spending a lot more money. But they want to replace everyone with AI, or off shore, or whatever.

  • I read a post about different communication styles, and this is "builder vs maintainer". https://www.haileymagee.com/blog/three-communication-differences

    A builder will try to add to the conversation by adding their own experiences. A maintainer will not add their own, but will focus on the other person's.

    A builder talking about something may feel like a maintainer isn't that interested because they're not adding anything.

    A maintainer talking to a builder may feel annoyed because the builder keeps talking about themselves.

  • It was a good game. Not perfect, but very good.

    Even the things I don't like are pretty minor.

    • upgrading weapons is kind of tedious. Once you know where the stones are or the bearings, it's kind of a chore to get them.
    • related: once you know where some high value items are, it's really tempting to just beeline for them from the start. But that's kind of tedious. I guess I could just pretend I don't know where the +5 stats talisman is.
    • a lot of side content isn't especially rewarding. The first time you play it's exciting because you don't know what you'll find. But later it's like "nah, this catacomb has a useless ash and boss I'll fight elsewhere". Which is a shame because most of the level design is great.
  • Yeah, I mostly play Fate or nWoD. But a lot of people are really emotionally invested in D&D, so sometimes I think of ways to try to trick them into playing something different while they think they're still playing D&D.