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  • What point do you think you're making? That I should check the age of replies in my inbox before replying to them? What age is the max - 2 days or something? I didn't know how old it was.

    EDIT: I just checked - nope, you are the one who waited 3 days to reply.

    Also, nice distraction technique, changing the subject. So you're not going to contest the tone that your comment conveyed? That is as much of an admission as I need.

  • Acting confused in the face of someone telling you their problems, and responding that you've never experienced that, gives off the vibe that you don't believe them. Remember, my first didn't say that you were actually being hostile. I said you were starting to sound hostile. It was a warning. Can we leave this yet? It's really not that important.

  • I have told you point blank that I am not challenging their stories. More than once.

    I didn't actually say you were, though. Just that you "gave off that vibe" and "came across that way".

    So you are refusing to believe I am telling the truth.

    No, you're refusing to interpret your tone.

    Let me guess- that doesn’t make you a hypocrite, because you refusing to believe I’m telling the truth is totally different.

    I'm not saying you're lying, or saying you accused them of lying.

  • Literally every response of yours to people explaining how they were abused for showing emotion.

    Your first comment, especially:

    And why would you be ridiculed and scorned for opening up emotionally?

    None of this meme makes sense to me.

    Stop making this more complicated than it actually is. Accept the criticism and grow as a person.

  • I have no idea why you thought I claimed you were looking for sympathy. You must not have actually read it properly. I said you are not giving sympathy. And yeah - I didn't give you an explanation, exactly because other people have. That's kinda the point I was making - others have already explained it to you, and your bewildered "oh golly gee, people aren't that mean!" attitude struck me as resisting to believe people can actually be so cruel. Not just aghast at it, but refusing to actually believe they are telling the truth and not just mistaken.

  • Your evidence is... the comment i responded to? Not very compelling. It doesn't feature you giving any sympathy, just saying you don't get it. And the implication thus far is that you simply can't conceive of it happening. Not the most empathetic stance, is it?

    It reminds me of the guys that claim sexism no longer exists, asking "but where is there any sexism?" And then shooting down all examples as not counting, continuing to ask "where is this sexism?"