Before university = the whole life lived as a girl before university is even in it. The whole time being held to a different standard, encouraged one way, discouraged another way, etc etc. Any interest or persuasion being dismantled and/or dismissed for decades before uni.
It's how women have to be excellent to make a male dominated thing a part of their life. It starts long before uni so you're seeing it after other women have been knocked down and out of it.
When throwing away a perfectly good box is a well thought out decision after the box has been in a staging area for some time while you think about it.
Being around kids and being seen just like I remember seeing adults when I was little. Assumed authority and decision making power and the answer to every problem or wish.
Before university = the whole life lived as a girl before university is even in it. The whole time being held to a different standard, encouraged one way, discouraged another way, etc etc. Any interest or persuasion being dismantled and/or dismissed for decades before uni.