Creepy? No, probably not, but it does present some potential problems: You probably don't have a whole lot of things in common at this point. You might not be particularly compatible with regard to your friend groups or your desires for your future. You are in a situation where it's going to be difficult to get on the same level. These are not insurmountable obstacles, but they are potential obstacles.
That said, if you and she are both okay with it—and your daughter, who is clearly someone whose opinion you care about—then have a great time! Don't have high expectations, but enjoy yourself and see what happens.
Life definitely can have stages once you're an adult. Relationships (married/divorced/remarried), family (babies/kids/teenagers/adults), work (entry level/senior/management/retirement). Think about if you're on the other side of a big party than the other person; then you're probably on different life stages. Not all of them are weird to date between, but most of them are weird to date across big differences.
No problem! This is the sort of thing I think everyone will have to learn how to do sooner or later. Viewing source, checking archive.org, and such are just going to be a part of evaluating a site for legitimacy. I'm happy to help make it seem more attainable!
Definitely fake, imo. They don't pass the sniff test for me.
The design is identical on all four sites, with the exception of the logo. Now, this in and of itself isn't a smoking gun: the design appears to be the WordPress default design from 2024. But it was the first thing I noticed, and with everything else...
The subjects are all the same but the copy is conspicuously different--if you and I were to each write an article about the same ramen, we wouldn't write the same article, but we would probably come up with a couple of similar sentences or sentence fragments. These are intentionally making an effort to be as different as possible, but with the same title and topic.
I checked the Whois of each site you linked, and they're all registered through Reykjavik despite having nothing to do with Iceland. Three of them are even pointing to the same Cloudflare servers.
The relationship between the "writers" and the content here make no sense. I could potentially see the Alabama Delta Gamma chapter posting some of these reviews, but Ninjago? Men's shirts? Shadow the Hedgehog soft toy? "Evan Feinberg" says that he's an advocate for "limited government," and "his" photo is of a white dude, so why is "he" "reviewing" women's fashion and Korean music? What does Cap City Energy have to do with any of this stuff?
By looking into the RSS feed, you can see that most of the articles on a given site were published within the same hour: Evan Feinberg's articles were all posted between 0800-0900 UTC on June 13, 2024. There are only seconds in between them.
Subjective: The content feels very much like slop. Not even current slop, either, but year-ago slop.
Also subjective: The Cap City Energy site doesn't seem to know that "Cap" is probably supposed to be short for "Capital."
If you look in the Internet Archive, you can see that a few (maybe all?) of them used to be real, legitimate sites. Bama Delta Gamma has an archived version that even links to an Instagram that certainly seems to actually be for a sorority. I think that whoever is behind these waited for a URL to become available, snagged it when it expired, copied some of the details (maybe the logo and some images), then fed it along with a list of topics to an AI, and plugged the output into a WordPress site.
the Texas Regulatory Consistency Act — which bars cities and counties from passing regulations that are stricter than state ones
So localities can't make stricter laws, and they obviously can't make less strict laws, so is there any point in having a city council anymore in Texas?
Eh, I kind of get it. OpenAI's malfeasance with regard to energy usage, data theft, and the aforementioned rampant shoe-horning (maybe "misapplication" is a better word) of the technology has sort of poisoned the entire AI well for them, and it doesn't feel (and honestly isn't) necessary enough that it's worth considering ways that it might be done ethically.
I don't agree with them entirely, but I do get where they're coming from. Personally, I think once the hype dies down enough and the corporate money (and VC money) gets out of it, it can finally settle into a more reasonable solid-state and the money can actually go into truly useful implementations of it.
So it turns out that it's just the "Recommended" section, and it's actually the Microsoft flavor of React Native that spits out real Windows (I think C++) code, but still...yeah.
This is one of the few things that AI could potentially actually be good at. Aside from the few people on Lemmy who are entirely anti-AI, most people just don't want AI jammed willy-nilly into places where it doesn't belong to do things poorly that it's not equipped to do.
“I never give advice, but there is one thing I wish you would do when you sit down to write news stories, and that is: Never use the word ‘very.’ It is the weakest word in the English language; doesn’t mean anything. If you feel the urge of ‘very’ coming on, just write the word ‘damn’ in the place of ‘very.’ The editor will strike out the word ‘damn,’ and you will have a good sentence.”
Peanut-butter-cream-filled donut. A long john-shaped donut with peanut butter cream inside and chocolate icing on the top and a light dusting of chopped peanuts on top is usually what she grabs. Good stuff.
My favorite cake fluctuates often, but I usually prefer cake with something special going on. German Chocolate, Carrot, Spice, Lava, that sort of thing. Yellow and White and Chocolate (and even Confetti) are all fine, but they're not amazing.
This looks like the truck equivalent of a really short guy with huge muscles and a perpetual scowl, who always keeps his shoulders directly above his knees and his hands in karate-chop pose while he walks.
I love my mother-in-law. I mentioned one time sixteen years ago that I enjoy red velvet cake, and for the following decade every time she got donuts there was at least one red velvet donut in there.
Now, while red velvet is delicious, it's basically just chocolate. The real joy of red velvet cake is the cream cheese icing, which was never included on the donut. And even with the icing, it's like my #3 or #4 favorite cake, and she never brought me a german chocolate cake donut.
She has learned that I prefer the peanut butter cream-filled, though. Now that's the one that's always included. Which is part of why I always tell people I lucked out marrying into a super great family.
Creepy? No, probably not, but it does present some potential problems: You probably don't have a whole lot of things in common at this point. You might not be particularly compatible with regard to your friend groups or your desires for your future. You are in a situation where it's going to be difficult to get on the same level. These are not insurmountable obstacles, but they are potential obstacles.
That said, if you and she are both okay with it—and your daughter, who is clearly someone whose opinion you care about—then have a great time! Don't have high expectations, but enjoy yourself and see what happens.