When I was a kid I just tried flexing any muscle in my face, and if some made my ears move (even a little, or connected to other things), I'd keep trying to do that but also trying to isolate it to just my ears. After enough of that I was able to move them and switched to trying to control one at a time. Now I can do both independently pretty easily
I used to love eating meat, till I had to actually think about ethics beyond "whatever the bible says is right" and recognize that all sentient beings are morally relevant
When I was a kid I just tried flexing any muscle in my face, and if some made my ears move (even a little, or connected to other things), I'd keep trying to do that but also trying to isolate it to just my ears. After enough of that I was able to move them and switched to trying to control one at a time. Now I can do both independently pretty easily