Before Vietnamese Sai Gon was still called Sai Gon, there was a lot of car on road.
When Sai Gon change name to HCMC (i.e: communism triumph over greedy capitalism), lot of cars disappeared, replace by bycycle, then motorcycle until today.
So, porverty to the point that convert car from necessity to luxury is a best way to reduce car.
To them, cuddled is being grab, hold, (and eaten).
Sometime, they freeze in fear, submissive, because you are their owner, you dominate over them. They let you cuddled because they think you are stronger, not because they like it.
Yes I did chip in few time before.
When I do, I feel like I am obligated to do so. I am submissive. They are god asking for sacrifice.
Then they ask more.
I refuse, my dad already told me to not chip in long ago. But when I actually stop, I feel I had broken the chain that bind me. It like, something you have to do but you don't want to. A binding, cause by ... culture propaganda (?!).
I am drifting from collectivism to individualism.
Now I feel my mom is a victim. She is being leeching sooo long, and still willing to be leeching.
Boom, there goes by childhood