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I think you have some good points, except that these are not average people, but grad students being taught writing for PhD programs. I think that level of study necessitates mastery by its nature- you have to write original work for (most) doctorate degrees.

Is this a community, or is this a circlejerk? I don't think categorizing beginners who don't know where to start as leeches creates the kind of environment people of all knowledge levels want to spend time in. You don't personally have to educate them, but telling them off for asking is pretty rude.

They can! They look identical to the old blinds, just without the string. I had to ask if the installers forgot the strings when we got new ones a few years ago!

Bird is the word irritates me in ways I cannot describe

Not that hot a take if you look up the original lyrics though

He's a cop, of course he knows how law enforcement will go through and find something incriminating

Even ranked choice voting couldn't save NYC from picking the most bonkers mayors you can imagine

I'd hesitate to call it a replacement but it is very fun! Top of the Stardew-likes imo

One of the things I found useful for occasionally setting boundaries is "time out", ie, shut her in your bathroom for about 5 min when she's really bouncing off the walls. I wouldn't use it as a more than once a day kind of thing, but sometimes communicating "this is too much, we are not playing right now and you can come out once you calm down a little" can reset the mood quite a bit. And it can give you a short breather when you are feeling overwhelmed.

I'd also recommend watching some old "My Cat from Hell" episodes, they have some very specific advice that can help out a ton! Jackson Galaxy is really a cat whisperer, and also talks quite a bit about the relationship between not only the humans and the cat, but also coaching the relationship between people as well. It's important you and your fiancee are on the same page and work together.

Just curious, but why is your description of an entirely different incident than the headline?

I overall enjoyed reading it but you're absolutely correct that it was very self-indulgent and smug for waaaaay too much of it.

I can recommend Dimension 20's Misfits and Magic (season 2 just got announced yesterday!) as a much better critique that still brings the joy that people felt with the source material to the table. The cast all says fuck terfs too!

I think they have a little bit of both, which is important! One of the best Brennan quotes was "people think I'm nice, but I just conform to the genre"

The bi-cycle!

Hello! Congrats on your plans for cat adoption! Here's a few pieces of advice I have from experience:

1. Kittens are a lot of work. They're really cute! But they are babies and they act like it. You have to teach them a lot of things about the world, and how to interact with people/other animals/things. And often most places will only adopt out kittens in pairs, since they benefit from having a buddy growing up. Since kittens are in high demand, they often have a bigger adoption fee, if that matters to you. Adult cats between 2-10 years are probably ideal for most new cat owners as they are well established adults that won't need a lot of training for the most part (but definitely know as much of your cat's history when adopting if you can!).
2. Cat breeds aren't like dog breeds, by and large. They are mostly common cats of different colors down at the animal shelter, and cat owners will swear up and down that cat colors have personalities (torties are sassy! Orange cats are dumb but sweet!) but it's largely just the individual cat's personality. The important things for you are probably going to be fur length (long hair and hairless cats require a lot more maintenance or it'll effect their health) and how well you get along with the cat individually. The one thing to note is do not adopt a bengal cat as a beginner! They are hybrids with wild cats and act like it! And also I would advise against smooshed nose cats/floppy ear cats/tail-less cats/short legged "dwarf" cats, as they have some pretty bad health issues from those genetic differences.
3. Cats in the shelter are stressed and probably not going to act exactly the same way when you take them home. If they're very friendly, they could be more standoffish, or vice versa. You just gotta find the one that speaks to you! And be patient allowing them to adjust when you take them home. Give them a landing space with a litter box, water, and maybe a little food in opposite corners, and give them some hours to get used to the sounds and smells of their new place. Depending on how much space you have, it'll be between a day and a week for a cat to get settled.
4. Get the very basics to start and be ready to get more stuff later. A basic litter box, scoop, and a cheap carrier will do it before you adopt. Use your own dishes for water and food before you go buying anything for the cat, you don't know right away what needs they'll have. The shelter should recommend you food, get small quantities (not bulk) until you've had your first vet check up in case that changes. My cat is spoiled with a much bigger litter box than our first pick, a water fountain, an automatic feeder, wet food on a plate (most cats like flat surfaces instead of bowls for food), and so many toys he doesn't like anymore!
5. Have fun! Cats are great. If you learn their body language and respect their autonomy, they'll love you so much for it.

Not to be completely pedantic, but isn't New Jersey's next senator the one replacing Menendez now that he's resigned? George Samir Helmy?

Normally I'd agree with you, but do we really think the guy tweeting about Kristin Stewart and Rob Pattinson's breakup doesn't know who Taylor Swift is? Now ask him who Charlie XCX or Chappell Roan are, and he definitely wouldn't have a clue.

If you're particularly clever, you might see something before the event that makes you go, huh, that seems weird, I wonder why that is. And then the event happens and you're like, ohh, it was the event! It was telling me the whole time!

So for him it totally tracks to be married to a type of person that you hate.

Women, for example

She's a Stan Shunpike- radicalized offscreen, leaving everyone else confused

My guess is that Judy Blume writes about girls going through puberty and getting periods as a normal, frank discussion of what that's like. And any talk about the bodies of women and girls is indecent to conservatives.