Is there a specific reason for you to use the .ml domain? Have you considered changing to something else (.social would be nice since Mastodon, Pleroma, Pixelfed, Peertube and BookWyrm official instances use it)?
first of all BiglyBT is a Bittorrent protocol whereas I2P is its own protocol. You could try and find another torrent or wait until there's some seeder, which usually happens after some time.
I am not going to stop using Lemmy if the slur filter is not removed but I have to agree a lot, me and all my friends use reapropiated slurs (from Spanish, not English) and it would be really ugly not to be able to use them.
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