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  • I avoid the stock market because I can't find anything ethical to invest in. Particularly stocks that "perform" well are all variants of EvilCorp. So-called "Ethical Funds" all include companies that I wouldn't consider ethical.

  • You see it as lying. Most people do not. What you are interested in may seem "random" to the other person and vice versa. You have to start somewhere in order to find that common interest. As the main comment said, you can look for clues like maybe they're wearing the T-shirt of a band you also like. I agree that you should not be pretending or feigning interest. You should be trying to genuinely find areas of common interest.

  • It's good that you know what you desire and value. It might help you to understand that many (most?) people do not consider small talk to be dishonest in any way. Think of it like this: I see someone who sparks my interest and I want to get to know them better. Let's say I walk straight up to them and say "I saw you and you sparked my interest, and I'd like to get to know you better." OK, well what comes next? How do you get to know someone (total stranger) better? It's going to involve talking about random stuff until (hopefully) you both end up feeling comfortable with each other. The other thing is about that first part ("I saw you/wanna get to know you") is heavily implied by you walking over and saying hello.

  • How would you suggest someone approach strangers? Not at all? Come right in and express physical attraction? Most people like to have some low-stakes interaction (small talk) to gauge the "vibes". Any party is free at any point to decline to continue.

  • Nah. AFAIK pickup "artists" try to manipulate negatives like low self-esteem and jealousy. While some understanding of human psychology is helpful for those learning how to improve their social skills, this is barely even that. The comment is like the absolute basics of talking to strangers.

  • When they win elections, they refuse to use power to help people, but instead blame Repub obstruction. When they lose they wag fingers, but mostly just go along with Repubs (ie, confirmations) and they FUNDRAISE. Then they use that funding to defeat left dems in primaries.