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is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this?

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  • i blocked her :) thanks

    • i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?

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  • tysm! we are broken up for now n he said that was ok because he wanted to be with his bf

    • why are abusive people nice sometimes, especially in public?

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  • i did

    • i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?

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  • on the same community? and teens, yes

    • i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?

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  • no, someone else

    • why are abusive people nice sometimes, especially in public?

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  • i also have mental disorders and they look down on ppl with mental disorders

    • i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?

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  • well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.

    sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first

    “They mostly just type like this.

    Hello

    I’m fine, what about you?

    Sorry, I can’t hang out. I don’t want my boyfriend to be upset.”

    • can you guess my favorite animal?

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  • 🐱

    • would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?

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  • i mean, i have to strain to remember the name of the guy who harassed me, so i probably won’t remember his name either after a decade :)

    thanks so much

    • would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?

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  • ah, he said “let’s be friends” but he wanted to get back together in the future and i was willing to do that, but obviously not now.

    • would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?

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  • thank you ❤️

    • would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?

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  • thanks ❤️ ig cuz it’s so recent and i still harbor some old feelings, i feel like he can change

    • would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?

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  • i also notice that although he’s bi, he’d only talk about hot men (especially fictional), wouldn’t mention me to other people, and would talk to me about his crushes as if we were just good friends. he would also try to make moves with some of them, presumably not telling them about me

    • uhh… my ex girlfriend and long-time friend is now cishet, very christian, and makes those “i identify as” jokes regarding trans people. would it end up bad for me if i continued to be her friend?

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  • the reason was that she wanted to stay friends after losing interest in me and she liked another girl, so idk

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  • it was bc my current gf hated that i was a trans man

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  • im obv in pain and he yells at me for it

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  • i detransitioned. tysm

    • a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^

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  • i think it’s around the same 🤔 hehe

    • a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^

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  • whoops. i made my own language based off a language called toki pona. i made a community focusing on said made up language.

    • a community about and in my toki pona-based conlang ^ _ ^

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  • thanks!

    • Today I learned @lemmy.ml
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    (sorry if this doesn’t fit) i don’t speak russian, so today i learned “lunch” and “dinner” apparently use the same word (although dinner also has ужин)
    Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    what’s the difference of behaviors between a person with npd and just an asshole?
    No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    the person who abused(?) me (who I’m breaking free from and focusing on me💪) acted like this: is this common with certain mental health conditions?
    Blahaj Lemmy Meta @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    why doesn’t blahaj lemmy have downvotes like most instances?
    Asklemmy @lemmy.ml
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    i am currently going through a lot. what can i do to keep my sanity and not become depressed?
    New Communities @lemmy.world
    survived @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    created crushes, where you can talk about being attracted to someone