Well that is how the updates work if you install hardly any software. In case you have, every other one hits you with the update by itself, showing random dialogs, opening a browser to download the binary, asking for the elevation etc etc.
Interesting. Just as a single datapoint, I have been well above average of attractiveness some parts of my life for women. Have never been proposed this.
Guess how males perceive you is also important.
I have been approached by gay men few times.
No conclusions I can make :)
The Riftwar Saga, by R.E. Feist, starting with Magician. Not LotR levels, but still very pleasing.