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For #3, you need to log in to your iCloud account, head to the profile and security options, and make an application password.

Thunderbird will find all the appropriate settings once you provide your main iCloud email, and you just need to use the application password and everything will just work.

That's a misquote: it's "There is no ethical consumption under capitalism". It's basically saying that you, as a consumer, cannot legitimately make ethical decisions when buying, because the entire system is built on being exploitative, and thus any decision you make cannot be ethical because the choices you have are already the result of exploitation by the time you're making the decision.

A good example is the "going green" fad: it does not matter which consumption choices you make, because your choices are effectively irrelevant. You spend a little bit more money for the "green" product, and that money will go directly to megacorporations that are exploiting and polluting on a scale that so outstrips your ability to combat it. Thus, your "more ethical" choice did absolutely nothing but fund the exact same polluters and environmental exploiters as if you had not made the "green" choice in the first place.

I killed all delivery nonsense a while ago. It was like 4 fees plus a demand for a tip on top of inflated prices; go to the restaurant and pay $15 or pay DoorDash $35 for the same shit? Fuck that, I'll drive and pick my own damn food up.

And bonus, if half of it gets eaten in the car - I mean "wasn't given to me by the restaurant", sorry - at least I'm the one who ate the damn thing.

Anything on the public internet is some amount of risk.

It sounds reasonably configured, and for a single service that's been fairly robust, the only thing you really should make sure you're doing is updates - better if you configure automatic updates, so you don't even have to think about it.

unattended-upgrades is what you'd want on a Debian-alike for updates, and Overseerr depends on how you installed it.

I'm going to disagree with the OCLP people: it's a fine project, but it's absolutely horrible to deal with from an end-user perspective because they'll update something without realizing it's going to break something, and now you have to deal with someone's computer not working and get to maintain it.

If you can move to Linux, and she's happy with that, then great. Though you'd probably want normal Fedora, and not Asahi since it's not a M1/M2-based Mac.

But it sounds like she wants MacOS and, unless you want to fiddle with something that's finicky, failure-prone, and not guaranteed to work in the future, just go buy a used/refurbished M1 for like $600, and then not worry about it for the next 5-10 years.

I kinda have two answers to this:

1. Not yet,
2. It was more an intent to show that they're not some shining defender of the ad-free private internet, who would never take action to defend a potential future revenue stream if they thought it might be profitable later.

Remember everyone, corporations are not your friends, your buddy, your pal, or even slightly gives a shit about you beyond how much money they can extract from your wallet and anything that's in the way of them doing so they'll work around, stomp on, and kill by any means necessary.

Apple will follow suit: don't be taken in by the 'we love our customers' nonsense they like to present. They make billions in selling ads too, they just do it a little more quietly than Google.

Another point of view is that OSS and Linux is absolutely amazing.

With a very limited set of exceptions, you can grab Ubuntu or Fedora or whatever, make a USB boot drive, and be in a GUI and shitposting on the internet in about 5 minutes.

Linux has grown tremendously from when I started using it, which was when you'd probably have to end up editing a config file for X11 to add the modeline so X knew the resolution and refresh rate of your monitor because there was no auto-configuration for anything more than like 640x480@60hz (and even that might not work).

And in just a few years we went from very very few games working with Wine, to damn near everything that doesn't need ring0 rootkits working almost perfectly.

So yeah, it's not perfect, but it's absolutely light years from where it was 5 or 10 or 20 years ago and maybe focusing on how great it actually is vs bemoaning the things that still need work will help keep you motivated.

That said, at the end of the day software is just a hammer: you use it to build something. If Linux doesn't work but MacOS does, or Windows, or whatever does then use what works. There's no point in using something that doesn't do what you want to the point that you're angry/stressed/tired of dealing with it, because life is way too short to spend all your time fighting broken software when all you wanted to do was draw a picture or play a game or watch a movie or whatever.

They're not wrong in that most people aren't suited to or should be running what is effectively public services for other people from some surplus Dell R410 they found on eBay for $40.

That said, it's all a matter of degree: I don't host critical infra for people (password managers, file sharing, etc.) where the data loss is catastrophic, but more things that if it explodes for an afternoon, everyone can just deal with it. I absolutely do not want to be The Guy who lost important data through an oversight on an upgrade or just plain bad luck.

But, on the other hand, the SLA on my Plex server is 'if it works, cool, if not I'll fix it when I can' and that's been wildly popular I haven't had any real issues, because my friends and family aren't utter dicks about it and overly entitled, but YMMV.

TL;DR: self-hosting for others is fine, as long as the other people understand that it's not always going to be incredibly reliable, and you don't ever present something that puts them at risk of catastrophic loss, unless you've got actual experience in providing those service and can do proper backups, HA, and are willing to sacrifice your Friday evening for no money.

Alternate option: see if the performance of the various cloud gaming providers meets the mom approval factor. She's not playing anything the extra latency is really an issue with, and you can then avoid the hot, noisy, expensive gaming laptop category entirely and just get almost ANY laptop your mom likes, instead.

The only comment I'd add here is that you should make sure you have a real domain, that you've paid actual money to, when setting this up. ActivityPub assumes the domain is immutable, and the free dynamic domain names you can get (or free TLDs like, say, .ml was) are a bad choice. Spend the $10 or whatever, because if something happens to your domain name, you cannot just update it in the database and fix federation: it completely breaks everything in a way that's not repairable.

The closest thing you're likely to get is a black and white Brother laser.

It's as open as a printer is likely to ever be in terms of driver support, the availability of parts is reasonable, and you plug the thing in via USB and then forget it exists until you need to print something.

I have a 2300D I've had for most of a decade now and the only thing I've had to do is put paper in it.

Good news, then: http://canvas.toast.ooo/

And that's why corporate social media is so sticky: your average user doesn't care WHAT is done to them and the most they'll maybe do is grumble slightly and spend a little less money, but won't actually bother to do anything or make any changes, or go somewhere else.

Talk to your instance admin for that. Mastodon caches remote images and serves it from the local server to local users, so it should be fast unless the admin has something broken or configured wrong.

Doing a re-play of the Wing Commander games. So far has been 80% Wing Commander and 20% the 'edit your config.sys file so the game loads' minigame it came with.

Object skipping is a most welcome addition, especially given I've had a couple of print failures when a super skinny tall thing gets wonky and I'm forced to chuck it all to try again.

Wow, I'm shocked that they're going to sell the biometric data to anyone who wants it. Well, not that shocked. Actually, not shocked at all.

UptimeKuma is what I use; it'll watch tcp connections, docker containers, websites... whatever. And the notifications are pretty comprehensive and probably cover anything in 2023 would want to be using.

Just to be pedantic, it's not pull, it's push: the data is POSTed from the server that hosts the community.

Right now loading a page makes a bunch of API queries to pull all the related data for the posts, votes, sidebar info, and so on AND the API is very untuned and sending way more data than the WebUI/a client needs to actually generate a page: hence my 'it's less efficient' comment, though this is certainly something that can be tweaked to improve performance between the back and frontends.

I will, however, admit that this is only true if someone is actually reading the content they're subscribed to. The 'subscribe to everything' scripts turn this math on its head because now you are using resources to gather data you don't care about.