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  • More than that, people need to learn to read men. "Yeah I'm fine, don't worry" is often a very quiet cry for help from a gender which is traditionally taught to show only strength and permanence and to never show outward signs of "weakness".
    It's nothing short of traumatic, the upbringing where you don't get to cry.
    TL:DR Fuck the patriarchy

  • I fundamentally disagree that this distinction exists, and even if it did this is not a situation where it would apply.

    But it does exist; preaching is persuading or guiding others to follow your own beliefs. If no distinction existed then we would be mechanically bound to preach what we believe, and we're not, so it's a choice.

    Everyone is a hypocrite to some degree. There are levels of hypocrisy that are breathtaking, and levels that are just meh.

    'Thou shalt not kill' is a biblical commandment, not a principle. It comes from the fundamental principle of harm minimisation, and the two examples you gave are different (extreme) applications of that principle, see: the trolley problem etc. It's morality for babies; looking at extreme black and white cases to be able to get a clear, consensus issue. Life is rarely that simple. Morality is never that simple.

    They straight up went "when I break my own moral principles it doesn't feel as bad as when others break them against me"

    I'm not sure, that seems like another extreme interpretation of something more nuanced.

  • This behaviour is morally no better than that of megachurch pastors who preach the immorality of gay sex and get caught paying men to fuck them in the ass.

    OP didn't say they preached their morals though. Holding morals and preaching them are different things. I'd put this more in the category of people who pray secretly to a different god than the state-enforced religion, since OP is living in a capitalist society whilst not holding capitalist values.

    I think there's got to be room for some grey areas in morality. I abhor late-stage capitalism, but I would not rather die than shop at a chain supermarket.

  • I don't feel like this is a strong argument, if that's what it's meant to be. If not, please disregard the following.
    You don't need to watch the Olympics or the Paralympics to have compassion for your fellow human beings who are competing there. And you can simultaneously feel compassion for the cis women who feel that the playing field is not level if trans women compete with them, and for the trans women who just want to be able to compete.
    I'm vehemently pro-trans, and I think that this issue has yet to be settled either way. What you seen to be doing here is an ad hominem attack on someone holding the opposite viewpoint to you (a viewpoint that, again, I hold). This doesn't help push things forward.

  • There are different levels of lying though aren't there. This woman had a history of stirring trouble, and if the motive AND outcome of this lie were to stir up trouble on as large a scale as possible, then to not oppose this behaviour would be to invite more unrest.
    The whole country just rioted based on a complete fabrication; a racist lie, cynically fabricated for the purpose of provocation. That needs to be addressed, and if she is the provocateur then she needs to be punished, because that type of behaviour is evidently destructive to society.

  • Not in the slightest. I'm aware that a country isn't a monolith. Unfortunately, the country as a whole celebrates its victories in sporting events. These athletes shouldn't be punished, true. But the politicians who are committing genocide should. Their ability to celebrate their nation and to receive international acclaim is unfortunately tied up in their athlete's careers.
    Allowing Israel to participate is validating a genocidal apartheid ethnostate. The athletes wear that flag.

  • It does make a bit of difference. There's only one side you can be on in a genocide.
    Any country committing a genocide should have all of its privileges taken away. One example of this is having its athletes compete in the Olympics.

  • And my comment points out that it was the wrong decision to allow them here.
    The idea that the "only" thing it can achieve is to drive hostility to those who have arrived is an untested assertion. For example, how about the majority of French people who are horrified at Israel's policies? They are given voice by this statement.
    I would argue that allowing Israel to compete as though nothing is wrong is more dangerous, because ten times as many people are murdered in Palestine per week than there are Israeli athletes in Paris, none of whom are likely to die even if this statement whips the entire country into a murderous rage.

  • Israel is an apartheid state, currently committing genocide. Why do they get to go to the Eurovision and the Olympics when Russia, another state engaging in genocide, don't? Israel doesn't deserve to go to the Olympics. It's really as simple as that.

    Sometimes decisions are incorrect.

  • ...while Trump may be laughable, he has never once said anything wry, witty or even faintly amusing – not once, ever. I don’t say that rhetorically, I mean it quite literally: not once, not ever. And that fact is particularly disturbing to the British sensibility – for us, to lack humour is almost inhuman. But with Trump, it’s a fact. He doesn’t even seem to understand what a joke is – his idea of a joke is a crass comment, an illiterate insult, a casual act of cruelty.

    -Nate White, on why British people don't like Donald Trump

  • Measure it? It's entirely subjective and therefore isn't compatible with measurement, obviously.

    I think the vast majority of shitty pop songs fade away.

    You should look in the mirror maybe. You're still here, too. Arguing about something that doesn't matter, against a point you don't seem to have understood. I guess we're as bad as each other.