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  • I sometimes let my mind go on a fantasia-esque dream journey. I always start with the same imagery, and then try to coax my subconscious into taking the reins. It's like tricking your mind into the REM state.

  • That specific instance sounds like a non-event.

    There's two things going on here that you should have a conversation with your girlfriend about.

    1. This event is really bothering you. You should dig a bit to find the source of this anxiety. Maybe you have general anxiety and need to take steps to manage it. Maybe you have insecurities about your relationship that you need to address with your gf.
    2. Whatever the status is for #1, relationship jokes hit too close to home for you right now. It's ok to ask your gf to try to refrain from these kind of jokes while you work on the source of your anxiety. There's times when I've had to ask my SO the same. Sometimes it's because the joke itself is insensitive or comes from a bad place, but sometimes it's because I'm not in the right place for that joke myself. The main thing is work on the source but it's ok to ask for help in the meantime.
  • how do you cope with people not understanding your thought process, ideas or just your way of life?

    This isn't an intelligence problem, it's a communication problem. Soft skills are another kind of intelligence that happens to be a blind spot in IQ tests. If you're struggling with expressing yourself, look into improving your communication skills. Books are a good place to start. Putting yourself in situations where you will have to talk to strangers is another.

    If you have a higher IQ and are in high level studies or esoteric fields, I'd encourage you to expand your definition of intelligence. I've found the most important kinds of intelligence in life don't show on IQ tests.

  • I would buy the drumsticks too at that price. If you're not looking for the historical reasons, then it's purely preference and recipe. Drumsticks are higher in meat and chicken wings are higher in skin and sauce surface area. I usually prefer drumsticks but wings win when the recipe makes the skin super crunchy or I want a higher ratio of sauce.

  • No favorites unfortunately, but there's a lot of good looking recipes and vegan bouillons like this. You might have to experiment to find which one works the best in the curry.

    I love carrot hot dogs! Surprising how accurate the taste can be.

    Good luck and please make another post to let us know how it goes!