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  • If you mean physical and optical attraction, that can be improved by hygiene, clothing, haircut, exercise, makeup, diet.

    Other factors like manners, conversational skills, generosity, outlook, morals, ethics, dance skills, art skills etc. can also be worked on.

    Below average looking guys will easily pull women, if they have status and a purpose/passion in life. Status isn’t just money, it can be just being known for being useful in your social circles.

    Ugly people have sex and spouses as well.

    Yes, the bottom 10% of men have it harder. However most of them can work on themselves to improve their attractiveness immensely.

    One advantage men have, is their attractiveness increases with age. For women it goes downhill in their 30s. For men that’s when their peak starts.

    I’m now 42 and more women in their late 20s are interested in me than ever before in my life. Single late 30s women are often desperate to find a husband. The older men get, the bigger their dating range becomes. As a rule of thumb men can get women at their age or younger. Women will go for men their age or older. Woman with wrinkles and grey streaks: old hag grandma. Man with wrinkles and grey streaks: handsome and trustworthy.

    So if you want to attract the most desirable women, work on yourself until you’re 30 and then start looking for a wife.

  • Do a group activity which has members of the demography you’re trying to attract. Show that you’re useful in a social environment and you will gain status and thus attract mates.

    That can be anything from environmental protection, sports, politics, arts, music, games, organizing parties.

  • PSA TO NCD USERS

    Jump
  • Admins all over lemmy are antisemitic or anti-Zionist. I have seen users banned from lemmy.world for posting a link to the IHRA definition of antisemitism.

    If you don’t toe the line of Israel = evil, but offer some nuance, the mods delete posts and ban users. Posts that are very much inside the rules.

    There’s practically a nonwritten rule on politics and news communities all over lemmy, that threatens to ban anything Zionist or nuanced regarding Israel.

    Of course it’s worst with the tankies from lemmy.ml, but lemmy.world is barely better.