Frankly, I probably wouldn't move either if Windows didn't permanently break my ethernet and WiFi drivers
I think this might be colouring your expectations a bit, and you might be projecting your experiences on to others.
I've said for years that it was gaming that was holding me back from running Linux full time. I don't do a huge amount of gaming, but it is important to me, so for many years it was a deal breaker.
Now, gaming is good enough, even though it's not perfect, and I moved to linux full time around 9 months ago.
People aren't "lying". They just have different priorities to you...
instances/hubs/rpcs cannot block a user account or community
Why would I want that? That sounds genuinely awful.
Edit - And the plebbit homepage talks about making a 4chan equivalent, and along with this post, there are pepe images everywhere. No thanks. Plebbit can fuck right off
I don't. I don't "hold myself accountable" in the way you frame it, because if you "hold yourself accountable" every time your ADHD gets the better of you, you'll just end up constantly angry at yourself, and still not getting things done, because being angry at yourself doesn't make your ADHD go away.
So, I will always live in a messy house. But, I (mostly) stop it from getting out of control, and that's enough. I don't beat myself up that I can't keep a house the way many other folk do.
A saying that helped me is "If something is worth doing, it's worth doing badly". Which is to say, if something is worth doing, then getting it started and partly done is still better than not getting it done at all. Do the thing you need to do until you can't do it. Then instead of forcing yourself to keep doing it, move on to something else. A hastily done kitty litter is better than none. A thrown together resume is better than not putting in an application (because you can always update/change it in the future). Give yourself permission to do things "badly", because at least, you'll be doing the things.
You should be able to now. It's just that no one on this instance had subscribed to it yet, so the instance didn't know the community existed. All sorted now though!
And, if you can't remember the options for commands, fish will offer you suggestions. So, if you type ls - and press tab, fish will give you a list of all of the valid switches and a brief description.
The person you're referring to has literally been banned from this community by the community mods. Wind your identity gatekeeping back, because you don't need to invalidate someones identity to moderate them
but it feels like a subversion of the concept as a whole.
Sometimes that is the point. Some folk who don't fit in to the binary, but for whom "non binary" isn't right either, who don't have the language to describe their experience and feel trapped by the impact of the binary system, and for them, subverting the system itself and dislodging the expectations that come with it is part of the reason they choose their pronouns.
It's still an act of claiming ones own identity and of reclaiming power, whilst also being a middle finger to the system.
And as I've said elsewhere, your opinions or my opinions on the validity of someone elses identity is irrelevant. You can think whatever it is you think, but you don't get to invalidate their identity in this space, because normalising invalidation for people you don't understand hurts every gender diverse person more than the act of a single troll.
Edit - And I removed your post, because at some point you verged from questioning and trying to gain understanding, to outright invalidation. If you can remove those parts, I'll restore the post
I transitioned...