Imagine yourself as one of your inner circle Friends and sometimes check if you would talk to your friends like your brain talks / thinks about you.
We are often so mean / demanding to ourself and often dont know when something is not good for us, but we tend to be good at caring for our friends.
And to add on that R&D thing.
It's supposed to be move fast and break things to learn what things are not working good enought so you can deliver a finished not-breaking-stuff-thing.
Love getting the wakeup call that just because something is part of the fediverse it is not inherently good or perfekt and still needs work (in regards of the humans that join)
The message is "Dont have abortions" i guess...