Canada. I understand the risk of living next to a problem ex and Canada is by no means perfect either, but a) I'm honestly enjoying life here more and have a solid group of friends, and b) I simply would not be safe staying in the US as a tan skinned immigrant trans woman.
At the time, OkC was more for people seeking relationships. I did hear they took all the good features out of it though. I had used Tinder for 5-6 years prior to that without any luck because it's only for unicorns and people looking for a fling. Not sure how it is nowadays
I got out but I'm still terrified for my friends and family, they're all targets. I call my dad daily to make sure the SS hasn't snatched him even though he's a citizen.
I'm afraid there's only one way out of this, and it involves that pesky second amendment. Civil disobedience doesn't do shit against fascists with paramilitaries bigger than other countries' armed forces. I also fear that if Americans don't do anything about it sooner rather than later, the US will force itself onto other countries militarily.
Salem, MA is one of my favorite places to be. I used to go there so often that the locals thought I was a local. I planned to "retire" (whatever the millennial equivalent is) there.
I left earlier this year. I'm a tan skinned Latina trans woman immigrant, basically their #1 target. I'm still absolutely terrified for my friends and family.
I truly hate that I'm still chained to the US via my citizenship. A part of me hopes they denaturalize me so I don't have to pay them shit.
Canada. I understand the risk of living next to a problem ex and Canada is by no means perfect either, but a) I'm honestly enjoying life here more and have a solid group of friends, and b) I simply would not be safe staying in the US as a tan skinned immigrant trans woman.