Except in this instance the bar is the meme and you can't stop the Nazis from using it no matter what you do. Even if you move on to some other meme they can just as easily follow you, now no one knows what's acceptable or not and for how long.
My mother took my father's surname and kept her maiden name as a second middle name, then they named their children the same way. That ended up being the smoothest way to handle it for official documents.
No Ron