There was decades of shame and hiding both from woman and men, that not help especially with older doctors, hopefully newer generations overcome this issue
I don't understand, if you run a program inside the sandbox and the program ask for a library, the kernel need to map the library from inside the sandbox to the program, that overhead that I'm talking about
One thing that no-one tested is the overhead of all the sandbox, like, each module, lybrary of program run in a sandbox(some times they tweak the source code not need the sandbox) so I wanted to see the overhead of all of that
of course, i totally agree with you, but only after the end and a lot of therapy, i came to the conclusion that my mental health were already bad before everything, and continuing it fucked in a level that i needed antidepressants and anti-anxiety to get out of bed
You're never responsible for what someone does to themselves btw.
i totally agree too, but as i said, i didn't want that to happen, i liked them, maybe not as a partner but as a friend, and I didn't think that were fair to them, "it was because of their toxic parents not their fault", the classic "I can fix them" in the end I couldn't, they were using me as a step ladder, and in the end I was worse mentally than them and they were the one to end the relationship to date others and let me alone
Surely you realize there must be some other way of handling that situation
Yes, lesson learned, don't let yourself go that low, you're going to get depressed and anxious, and do things that is going to make yourself even more depressed and anxious and you can only go one day per week to a psychologist for a reason, when you need tobe someone psychologist 24/7 something isn't right
because someone can get stuck in a toxic relationship, not because the person was bad, but was suicidal and had so much issues that you're afraid that ending it could make them kill themselfs, and you don't want to hurt them because isn't their fault, but you don't want a relatioship anymore
well urss was exactly like the third option, the problem isn't capitalism/communist is lack of functional democracy