More of just a softcore/strip kinda guy. I find porn corny and offputting so I'm usually just browsing /s/, fapello, or the endless tumblr blogs for every fetish imaginable. (suggestions welcome).
gallery sites, are my thing, I guess, redtube is another good one with a lot of solo stuff. Motherless, though I hate going there because some of that content is a little on the teen-obsessed side, and kinda creepy, but I do like the way the site is designed.
The vps is the wg server and my home server is a client and it uses pihole as the dns server. Once your clients hang around for a minute, their hostnames will populate on pihole and become available just like TS.
You do have to set available ips to wg's subnet so your clients don't all exit node from the server, so you'll be able to use 192.168.0.0 at home still for speed.
As for NPM, run it on the proxy, aim (for example) Jellyfin at 10.243.21.4 on the wg network and bam.
There's no central reason, just a large imaginary orb colored with various reasons.
K couldn't grow out of weekly spending to spend, or hoping for the impossible. She couldn't have kids, and she held a lot of it against me for not trying hard enough when I more saw it as her not facing biological, medical reality with what her doctors were telling her, lose weight and maybe, you have a shot. No? (PCOS)
With our parents aging and no one around to take care of them, I was left with a hard decision, spin my tires on someone I had over a decade of attachment to who had grown to hate me or go take care of my disabled mom.
Coin flipped, and while I don't regret my decision, I still miss her, but I have zero drive whatsoever to have a love life. There's too much to do, a country in political turmoil and a busy family that I don't want to damage with someone potentially untrustworthy.
Media store is a 12TB and an 8TB that dump into a 20TB that sits cold all but once a month.
My more immediate data that I need day to day is in a synced Documents folder across four different devices. I don't back it up, per se, I just make it impossible to lose.
Celebrities don't get that kind of treatment.