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  • My playlist of Armenian music is inappropriately huge. You will regret asking this question.

    I have many, MANY more. I am not remotely Armenian, just a huge SOAD fan who fell down a youtube rabbit hole one day...

  • Anyone you feel represents your position.

    Could that result in a shitty outcome? Sure.

    Is that your fault? Fucking no. That's the lie that has to end, and there's no non-painful way to do that.

    You have to let them fail, and be loud about the fact you're doing it. There's no good time for an intervention, it's always going to be a crisis, and frankly it has to be one anyway. Daddy isn't going to bail them out this time, shit just got real.

    Yes, you have to live with the consequences too; they aren't bluffing either.

  • As something of a connoisseur of abusive relationships, this pattern is familiar to me.

    Yes, I spent all the money on booze and drugs. Yes, again. Yes, I should have done better. But right now, the rent is due today and the kids have no food. If you don't help out with another $900, they'll be out on the street and the kids will go into foster care. And you don't want that, do you? It's not the kids' fault, why are you punishing them? Yes, I'll try to do better going forward, I'll look at getting help, I really will. But that doesn't help me now; for now I need you to give me $900.

    Next month: guess what?

    While you keep rewarding bad behaviour, they'll keep exploiting you. And they know it. And you know it - you're making their argument for them. All they need to do is sit back and reel it in.

    There won't be a time in the future when the impact is low enough that you can let them fail without someone getting hurt. They'll damn well make sure of that; it's a threat to their whole business model.

    So you'll rescue them again and again, and as soon as your back is turned, they laugh at you for being such a schmuck.

    At least, that is, until you don't. When will that be?

  • More of the 'vote blue, no matter who' garbage.

    How about instead of telling people to hold their nose and vote, you field a candidate who doesn't stink? Actually be good enough to vote for no matter who you're running against.

    Trump is the best thing that happened to the dems in decades; he's lowered the bar right to the fucking ground, so they think they only have to be one inch higher, and they can use fear of the alternative to avoid being taken to task on it.

    Have some actual progressive policies, and court progressive voters by actually representing their interests.

    Or lose like you did in 2016, and everyone pays the price.

    And no, you don't get to blame the fucking voters for getting it wrong. If you believe so hard in democrary, then you hold that the voters always get it right by definition, and anyone failing to attract their vote is simply bad at their job.

  • All your basic staples: salt, flour, oil, sugar, pasta, pasta, milk, eggs etc. There's literally nothing to do better or worse, so for god's sake don't pay for the label. Fancy olive oil is nicer, and fancy butter for actually putting on bread is nice too - but for cooking, cheap the hell out.

    Get your spices from an Indian / Asian / etc grocer - you can get a huge bag for the price of a tiny supermarket jar, and because they have so much turnover, they'll be plenty fresh.

    Store-brand laundry detergent and dishwasher tablets work just fine for me (and dear god you can save a lot on those).

    • Not one single solitary person who cares so desperately about trans people in women's sport has ever given one single solitary shit about women's sports themselves. It's just an excuse to practice their hatred while pretending to be righteous and Only Wanting What's Fair. But it's all about ethics in video game journalism, uhuh, sure.
    • Trans women are women. Even if they had some statistical advantage, they aren't taking away opportunities from women in sport, because they are women in sport. That's like wanting to ban naturalised citizens from the workplace because they're wrecking the economy by taking jobs away from [nationality] people.
    • Spend a couple of years on oestrogen, see how much upper body strength advantage you retain. It'll be somewhere between fuck and all.
    • Jesus fucking christ do trans teenagers not have it hard enough without people wanting to make their lives more shit out of spite? Fuck I hate humans.
  • Pretty much every service on the internet does password-reset via a token sent to your mailbox, so if someone gets control of your mail, you're pretty much pwned anyway. It would be slower and more inconvenient for an attacker to reset everything individually, but I'm sure they can automate that.

    This is just security theatre. Burning all my data makes my life a lot harder, but an attacker would barely notice.

    If I can reset each individual credential via mail token, on the assumption that only the genuine owner has access to the mailbox, then I lose nothing by resetting access to the whole set of credentials via mail token, on that same assumption.

  • Checked it out: apparently I had a mozilla account at one point in time. Hit 'forgot password':

    Note: When you reset your password, you reset your account. You may lose some of your personal information (including history, bookmarks, and passwords). That’s because we encrypt your data with your password to protect your privacy.

    Forgot your password: fuck you.

    This is the exact fucking opposite of the behaviour I'd ever want from a password manager.

  • Actually it's an effective cloud-based password manager that doesn't rely on local storage or weird plugins or backups.

    That's what keeps me using chrome. I could lose everything in a house fire, pick up any device, log in and have access to all my stuff without any further action on my part, right out of the box.

    That's the only feature I care about, and chrome is the only browser I've seen that provides it.

    Get me that in firefox, and I'll switch today.

  • Fuck that.

    If you want people to vote for you, be good enough to vote for regardless who your opponent is.

    If you believe that democracy is a valid method for choosing your leaders, then you don't get to blame voters for 'getting it wrong'; by definition they are always right.

    If your guy doesn't win, it means he fucked up. There's nobody else to blame.

    If it's the end of the fucking world if your opponent gets in, then maybe just fucking maybe now is not the time to play chicken by trying to get away with being 99.99999% as much of a piece of shit as your opponent, and hoping to get by on the skinniest margin you can. If it's that big a deal, maybe try to make that margin as wide as fucking possible.