A lot of fedi software is created by not great people sadly, even lemmy.
Only a few projects I know of are created by actually decent people who care about the community and don't have terrible beliefs/views.
'Soft' forks can only do so much and still rely on the upstream releasing new versions.
Hard forks are quite unlikely to get either the same kind of backing or be able to be supported as much even if the people behind them have good intentions and viewpoints/beliefs.
Sadly, under capitalism this is likely to be the case, even in the open source sphere, it's the people that have the money or who can attract it that are able to continue working on things such as this full time and, unsurprisingly, that tends to be people who uphold power structures, not dismantle them.
The history of mastodon.social - the one that has been historically run and moderated by the creator has been shown to be and called out multiple times for not moderating well.
Part of that is because it was allowed to get too big and part of that is that because of that they didn't have enough moderators (especially not ones that were paid).
This led to design decisions for both the web interface and the 'official' mastodon app that made moderation (such as one of the report options sending your report into the null) and the general experience (such as removing one of the timelines from the from the 'official' app) worse.
The tools for moderators and admins are also somewhat laughable and often display warnings which mastodon.social ironically doesn't follow or does all too well, depending on whether it's unhelpful or helpful for them personally to do so.
That's what I mean, not necessarily individual instance moderation, though as I have shown (not) doing good instance moderation if you're the developer helps develop tools and designs (which is part of the the problem/solution). But also a community orientated approach and actually paying attention to what folks are saying about an instance and the tools and things that are developed to help out, or as a consequence of any decisions taken or not taken in moderation.
About time. Hope this leads to actually good things for mastodon rather than a series of increasingly worse decisions by the current supreme leader who doesn't seem to care about safety, moderation or creating and keeping a unique identity for it and other things besides.
To us, love is 'just' caring (deeply) about others and respecting them, their autonomy, boundaries and consent. Many tell us that there are many different types of love, we don't really experience that though.
Lol, no. I just wanted to make sure everybody saw it as in my experience it is the easiest way to get files of any size transfered across the internet.
Shame.