The argument against cars also holds that people should live in places where cars aren’t necessary to avoid hermitude in the first place. You don’t need cars to socialize if you can walk to where people are, you don’t need cars for supplies if you can walk to where stuff is.
Long distance travel can have non-car solutions but also it shouldn’t be the default distance to be away from society.
One of the guys (Bob) suggested that we create a group text
and how it continued,
Bob made a group text with only those who attended this event, asking everyone to text when they got home
the stakes of any course of action feel pretty low. These groups Bob's setting up feel pretty much like they were done on a whim from the start so I wouldn't overthink how to participate in them. Invite more members if that would make you more comfortable, disengage if that would make you more comfortable, and trust that other members will eventually do what makes them comfortable in turn until you all find equilibrium.
I'm reading the update and, according to these details, every single person involved including yourself is making it weird and you all seem to want the group to not be comprised the way it currently is. That the group is eight men and one woman isn't the problem, the problem is you all as individuals seem make for a bad group.
My parents were separated since before I started forming long-term memories and I was raised by my single mother. We used to visit my dad's side of the family for a week or so every other Christmas, I lived with him for a couple months as a teenager when my home life got particularly rough due to a profoundly toxic non-parent influence, and during stay that we ignored each other apart from the cliche "divorced parent and kid who don't actually know each other at all trying to act their respective parts but neither knows how or really wants to or frankly likes the other one but they both know it's polite to pretend" sorts of interactions (which were quite sparing even as those go). Neither of us has ever attempted to keep in touch with the other over the phone or in writing.
To be clear, I don't hold any of that against him even a little bit; that's all perfectly normal on his end as far as I'm concerned. That's all just there for context when I tell you that, now that I'm well into my 30s, I recently heard from my older sister who actually tries to stay connected to him that he's begun boasting about how proud he is for having shaped me into the man I am today. And, like, I'm not even on social media so I'm not a person he's even capable of keeping tabs on from a distance if he tried. He fully has no idea who I am. He not only doesn't deserve to take credit, he doesn't even know what he's taking credit for. I'm just so automatically an extension of himself by virtue of my DNA that he goes around telling other people that he's proud of me.
(A more technically accurate but less entertaining answer to the question is that he's politically a Libertarian.)
I am very aware of the differences in quality but am mostly okay with bad equipment and/or bad settings. The most important thing is to be able to clearly see and hear what’s supposed to be clear and only especially incompetent or especially pretentious media doesn’t get mastered to work well on shoddy displays and/or speakers by those standards.
The one thing I absolutely cannot tolerate is HDR mode on TVs without enough of a maximum luminance to actually do HDR, so they and up looking way worse than SDR.
The idea of not caring about binocular quality is truly mystifying. Binoculars’ only job is to make things as easy to see as possible.
Make sure to get a pair that actually fit your head. They shouldn't squeeze your temples, the ear bends should actually be on your ears, they shouldn't slide around on your nose.
I wore glasses for like twenty years before I finally realized the source of every single problem I had with them was actually me picking the wrong frames and not inherent issues to glasses. Now that I'm aware of it I notice other people wearing ill-fitting glasses all the time.
When they stop feeling clean. Why are you all counting days?