I want to say, thank you so much for making this. I saved it, so that I could give it the attention it jeeded when I got my shit together, and could start helping others after helping myself. I'm there now, and this little list is giving me the motivation to go through the steps. You made a difference, and I appreciate you ❤️
Anger is absolutely a huge turn-off for me. As is all that 'tough-love' talk. If it’s not very explicitly explained to me, it comes across as just being an asshole. Even if it is explained, there's a good chance I'll be annoyed someone else decides they can 'teach me a lesson'if I'm not already intimately familisr with them. People assuming they know you well enough to redefine you is... Pretty rude, generally.
The voter suppression sure didn't help. Millions of key votes blatantly ignored because of the race of the voter. Only one to report on it is the Guardian.
Well said