Or order delivery, and buy the same thing from 3 different places because all of them sell the same cheap frozen / deep fried crap that turns cold amd soggy by the time it gets to you
Also, being a slaver society, if you wanted a side-chick as a middle class roman, you just bought one, and since the kids from those slaves were not able to inherit, the wives basically let it slide (although I am unsure how much fight they put up verbally. Letting husbands have a servant for “entertainment” as well as domestic chores were not unheard of even by the victorians)
it's not that she can't, she doesn't want to