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  • Not diagnosed, but me and my partner have learned that we both need direct communication. Mistakes are often made and assumptions can become set in stone. On your end, you can lay out your expectations clearly so if they don't line up with your partner's, they can express that. Like, "I'm going to a thing at 6, it's done at 8 so I should be home by 8:40 unless something comes up."

    Ideally then they'd say "I want to go to bed early" and then you can either make sure to leave right after or leave early if absolutely necessary.

    On their end, ugh. Sure, you knew they were up early, but it's not your responsibility to automatically assume a change in routine because of it. Also you did communicate when your expected schedule changed.

    texted me back, telling me... that I still needed to do the dishes

    asking me basically if I had lost my mind, why was I doing the dishes when they'd told me they'd wanted to sleep.

    Uhh, hello? That, plus repeatedly beating you over the head with "I was up early" just sounds... Not great. It's not good either that you snapped at them, but it sounds like you were pushed to that point.

    I'd suggest having a conversation and saying that you need them to spell things out for you, or at least ask questions to ensure a common understanding. Can't stress the importance of communication enough, honestly.

  • I mean, nobody who paid attention actually thought the democrats did enough. The whole point was to buy enough time to hopefully shame them into doing something progressive instead of token concessions, but it's a moot point now.

  • OwO

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  • I have a cat with actual brain damage, a clouded eye, and a lazy eye. She can't see for shit and she is not very smart, but she is a murder machine and will catch anything that jingles.

    The cat.

    The cat when activated.

  • Honestly it is an expected and appropriate slap in the face. If they left horse armor out it would be like they were ashamed of their earlier atrocity. Putting it in and making it more expensive is such a big dick move I can't even be actually mad.

  • We had two litter mates we let play on the bed. One would start causing havoc near the headboard and the other would make a break for the chest at the foot of the bed. Literally running distractions for each other.

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  • Haha, they haven't had that since day 1. They just need to get shot and reveal Ukrainian locations so they can bombard them with artillery. That's it, that's all they've ever done.