Yulia @ ShaggyDemiurge @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Transphobia is transphobia. Malicious transphobia is obviously worse, but unintentional one, created by biases that person internalized by living in transphobic society, is still transphobia. Doesn't make you a bad person automatically, but being called out should act as an encouragement to reflect on these biases, not double down and go "I'm actually not transphobic, and it's you trann trans people who are too sensitive"

Btw, bigotry does not need to be conscious or intentional or malicious to be real and cause harm, and you can be transphobic even when you’re not trying to or believe you’re are not, just saying.

How much exposure do you have to these bible people though?

I'm from Russia. I've seen more than enough conservatives. And more than enough brainwashing (though more in a context of a war)

In the end, I think, this is not really relevant. Transphobic parent, ultimately, hurts more than helps (even if they do it out of love for you), and people who do you more damage than help should be cut off

Sad that dad can't toss away his transphobia and accept his daughter.

Daughter's behavior is completely justifiable tho. If I was in her place, I would not look past bigotry and basic lack of respect to me

I think, you're more gross than anything that is in this post.

Father didn't lose a son, he rejected a daughter. If he cannot accept his own daughter because of being transphobic shithead, he deserves to suffer

At some point I had over a thousand tabs. Vivaldi just allows to unload them, so it didn't impact productivity that much

But I think I finally found a way to limit my tabs to minimum. so now (besides Google calendar and a pinned tab with a work chat) I only have 1-2 tabs open most of the time

Bigotry.

Well, maybe except "Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know / didn't think that this is shitty thing to say", these at least can be educated

Because I need outside access to get the hell out of this godforsaken piece of dirt

I used to use front right pocket, but then I transitioned, and girl jeans don't really have pockets that can hold a phone T~T

BotW was the first Zelda game for me, and it was such a massive disappointment. It's just open world without any redeeming qualities, with every single mechanic existing just to support open world. Felt more like a sandbox than a game. It's fun for about 2-3 hours, but then I just got really bored

I did finish it, because hey I paid for it, but it was not really something too fun for most of the time

EDIT: And I'm still mildly salty that BotW got GOTY in a year we got Nier Automata and Persona 5

Post rock, synthwave, japanese jazz. I also love hard rock, but don't listen to it too often, because I can't listen to it while I'm working

How did you make username do that?

It's back to Storage Full error again

Windows 10, even despite me being a software developer. It's just more convenient than to bother with Linux, and Android Studio works on Windows just fine

I tried multiple times to find the name, like, using versions of my deadname and stuff. It didn't really click

And then just randomly chose a basic-ass russian name that I vibed with

I mean, it's far from the worst that can happen, and I use adblock anyway

I don't agree, /s is immensely useful for neurodivergent people, some of which cannot recognize sarcasm at all.

Also, really often something that is "obvious sarcasm" for you is a genuinely held belief by someone online. Nothing is too ridiculous for the internet

As another software developer, yeah I get it :3

Some good communities are still there, and it's bearable to use from desktop using old.reddit.com. Also deleting account would mean deleting saved post history, which I'd rather not lose yet, there are some good resources there