Seagoon_ @ Seagoon_ @aussie.zone

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Thank you so much and hugs back.

Sometimes i worry that some of my stories are not nice , but I do try to show what is going on, why, and how to overcome situations , so the stories aren't just making more drama

hugs back 🤗

so sorry your parents made holidays difficult when they needn't have been

and totes agree on making holidays stress free,

travel non drama, best thing I did was buy extra baggage before the flight, it cost hardly anything, stress instantly gone

so the thought occurred, why the fuck didn't I do this all those other times I travelled or the fam travelled

Because I wasn't the one doing the booking and organising. We're not poor, we could easily pay, so why the drama and anxiety of worrying about being a few kilos over? Because it was all about the drama. 🤨

So many hugs.

sometimes I feel modern life is we are running twice as fast to just stay in the same place, it's nearly impossible not to feel anxious and depressed

just keep doing the right things 😘

That sounds like it will be awesome fun. And amen on all the stress of organising travel.

hugs

I have sock envy

What was the mission?

lol, you are in the most surprising subs

thanks, it's my first shark tooth ever 🦈

and it's nice to see rainbows 😊

that's cool 😊

Today at my neighbourhood beach I found a piece of coral, a shark tooth and saw a rainbow over the bay.

What did you do this time?

It might be that people's needs are different at different times, they might dump at different times, but over time it equals out.

the observation about taking things literally really resonated with me

I have a strong tendency toward that, it's from too long in relationships where there was no joking or fun , also a lack of self trust in figuring things out

And I just this past week noticed Miss Seagoon is the same , I joked that the chairs and loos in NZ were all too low, and in a way laughing at myself for being a but unfit, and could barely get up. A half day long lecture on fitness and strength training for seniors ensued.

I just have to tell her not to be so serious and not take me so seriously. We do laugh a lot but not enough.

How did we get this way. More importantly, how to get past this. I think awareness is best. No need to pathologise everything, it's just a habit.

is it dumping or is it team work ?

Is women complaining about men showing their emotional side and showing their vulnerabilities part of the problem

do women want strong men, and let's define what strong means

do women get to define who men should be

Everything I just wrote is about intimate relationships, about a partnership

if people are just casual friends then it's a boundary issue

😻🥰💖

Thank you Before Holiday Seagoon for making the house clean and having a really well set up office/desk to come back to

Cat are fighting over who gets cuddles.

Husband is happy to have chef home again, except we are having defrosted dinner tonight cos I'm tired.

I have to reset my watch, argh, two clocks on it and I want to do the chime too.

Airport was interesting, for the first time ever I had to tick boxes yes for border control. Yes I have been on a farm, yes I have wood ( shush ) , yes I have shells. After an interview they sent me through saying I was fine and could keep all my stuff. 👍 They did say if I didn't declare I would have been fined!! ( to be positive, I saw the Icarus statue . 🪽☀️ )

I did two lasting self improvement things, I stopped playing bubbletown and I learnt about self instruction, where I tell myself out loud to do things, it works!

Never ate so much dairy in a long time. My clothes still fit but it's time to diet again.

Grocery shopping has been ordered. Clothes in the washing machine. Unpacking has started. ( so many shells to wash , they 🐽 )

Thank you. 😘

Later I will post pics of NZ and of my hauls.

I am anxious to go visit my own little beach and see how it is. It's a small beach and more 'personal' because no one else ever seems to be there. 😊

It's nice to sleep with my own pillow and blankets again. 🤗