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  • It's not condescension. That's quite literally the point. So many people just refuse to be or have never learned to be humble. This is literally a great cooperative and constructive stance to take. You don't have to be tough, you aren't showing off to anybody - you're asking somebody for help understanding them. If that's really a problem, then you need to reassess how you navigate the world with others and why. If you genuinely do this for some trans kid, they'll love you and be more than willing to help you understand because basically nobody ever cares about them or their experiences. You'd make their year (shit. If you do this for anybody and you'll make them happy). But don't do it just to do it, actually embody this humility. It'll be weird at first, but you might even make a friend.

    If your first reaction is to be offended by advice, maybe you shouldn't be in leadership.

  • "I'm not sure I understand, but am willing to have an open mind and listen and understand where you're coming from. If you'll have patience to explain to me, I'd be willing to learn with humility and humanity and do my best to be a better person"

    Admit ignorance, commit to being a good person. It's not that hard.

  • Tell them that they're ugly and that their partner is ugly. Don't expand on it, don't debate, just leave them at that. I've found that doing that really fucks with people. That, smiling, and staring at their foreheads, though not altogether because then you look like a jackass. It needs to be subtle and honest.

  • It doesn't, Nazis are trying to make him a king and start ww3.

    Stop joking about it and start realizing what's actually happening.

    This isn't "Americans are dumb". This is "oh fuck, America has had hostile, contagious cancer for a long time and it's metastasizing rapidly."

    We're terrified and angry and don't really know what to do out of fear of retaliation or being disappeared.