Nice indoor day for some mining and or crafting, playing with cats and finalising studio setup again and trying to hide as many cables as I can away from the little angel of a kitten. Walk later whem the weather fines up.
One day at a time. Do your bed, take two trips. We all spend ages on feeling senitmental when packing up our stuff. It's a good exercise. Yeah flat pack furnitue always takes longer than expected I find.
Thanks so much, yeah I have a bunch, two adidas ones which are padded I kinda live in. I have a bunch of other ones which I bought early on for modesty and wore because I just loved playing with the straps. Eventually I'll get some fancy ones, but they're going to keep growing for 2-5 years
I wish I had some. Do some venting yourself? I think you're already doing that here though. Take some out to do something for yourself which occupies your thoughts? I used to talk to my partner's family. That helped. She often saw me as the enemy and hated her friends. It was hard.
Far out, you're a great human for being there for someone through all of that. I had a partner many years ago who at times became a ward of the state. It's pretty tough to witness. I can understand her venting at the very person who cares the most.
Got some old school dysphoria back last night. Lets just say I used to think I must be an alien. Cried like shit. I was around 21 then. It's still affirming to know I've always been like this, but sometimes it bashes into my brain in unexpected ways. Today feel amazing though, walked 10ks and realised my boobs have got a nice boob shape. 143 days hrt, I kinda hope they don't grow too big but most of my family aren't small breasted women. Still, euphoria quickly replaces dysphoria.
It's fucking demeaning when people tell you how to think. Seriously. Intrusive thoughts are very hard to deal with without being condescended to by people close to us.
Great work. I needed help from aa but have reached the same conclusions. A lot of shitty positions I found myself in, poor life outcomes and terrible decisions I made were due to alcohol. I have no idea if I could have stayed sober without aa but doing it alone has not worked in the past. I'd have long sober periods but always ended up having another bender. I'm only just over a month sober this time and finally my anxiety has abated. It really fucks with me. Getting a thorough organ health check next month. Hopefully I didn't do too much damage this time.
Well done sister! I'm glad he's trying to get better. He'd do well to avoid said friend until he stops drinking. AA has helped me realise how alcohol is at the core of so many problems. Other people's drinking can have terrible repercussions on those around them.
Fuck. I'm so sorry you have to put up with this crap. You could potentiaaly think about seeing a relationsip counsellor or mediator. You need to be heard and his disrespect toward you needs to stop.
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Nice indoor day for some mining and or crafting, playing with cats and finalising studio setup again and trying to hide as many cables as I can away from the little angel of a kitten. Walk later whem the weather fines up.