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RagingHungryPanda @ RagingHungryPanda @lemm.ee
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  • Have times changed? Yes. Do you need to approach women? Yes. Don't hide behind a screen. Get out there and talk with women.

    Talking with people is not disrespectful. God, what a sad society is that?

    There's a saying that goes something like, "Enlarge your territory, linger in public, walk through open doors." That's a good start. Get out of the house and linger in public places. Strike up conversations and be a social animal. Talk with everyone: men, women, young, old - get that practice in. If you talk with everyone, then you're not putting as much pressure on yourself. Don't get attached to an outcome, but challenge yourself to talk to people.

    I think you're making excuses. I strike conversations with strangers all the time, including women. I go dancing for swing, salsa, bachata. You wanna see something that challenges your beliefs on interactions between men and women? Go watch Bachata.

    But anyway. Social skills are a skill and they need to be worked. Put yourself out there and get rejected. (You'll learn it's not so bad).

  • Yeah, just me and my family for now. I have gotten a lot of knowledge setting stuff up and hope to eventually get some VPSs set up for some public Lemmy, pixelfed, and maybe mastodon instances for digital nomads and expats.

  • Hardcore history is one of my favorites.

    The Blow back Podcast is a great one that goes into detail of the US doing fucked up evil shit around the world. Each season is a different country and they have Afghanistan, Cuba, North Korea, and Iraq.

  • yeah, you bring up a lot of good points there.

    I was thinking there'd have to be different levels of the process, such as "submitted, reviewed, published" as well as "in the general repository" and "by this organization". The discoverability would still be hard due to the nature of federation.

  • Mine aren't totally great as they're both kinda negative. My top comment is https://lemm.ee/comment/16106836, which is pointing out that new jokes are old.

    My top post is https://lemm.ee/post/5345101. The image associated with it is gone, but it was a screenshot of an old friend reaching out and acting friendly in a text and trying to sell me on a crypto scheme. That actually really bumbed me out when he did that.

  • Anime @lemmy.ml

    Old man anime - you're about to die bc you're 30

    Anime @lemmy.ml

    Old man anime - you're about to die bc you're 30

    196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    The rule of economics

    World News @beehaw.org

    A Story about the Tourism Industry in Oaxaca, Mexico - and a story of censorship

    Meta (lemm.ee) @lemm.ee

    A way to reply to a ban