RQG @ RQG @lemmy.world

German, Dad, GM , Mini Painter, 3D Printer, dysfunctional gifted kid - he/h

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That's great to hear.

In my real life bubble Noone has heard of it.

My corner of the internet is the fediverse mostly as others said.

My real life corner has moved to Bluesky from Twitter which isn't great but an improvement. I do have to say I prefer the way Bluesky allows you to make feeds and share them over Mastodon discoverability quite a lot.

The move away from meta is slowly starting. Facebook is a thing anymore. But Instagram still has people struggling to move away (as does WhatsApp but signal works similar enough that I get people to slowly move over). It's not open source but miles better than Zuckerberg.

But Pixelfed just isn't a thing most people know about it seems. Same with lemmy. So reddit is still used a lot or quit without replacement because everyone hates the app experience around here.

Pixelfed also isn't my thing but then I never used Instagram or TikTok either.

I just did convince my family and all close friends to move to signal.

Were? I thought they still exist.

Left x long ago. Never joined any of the others.

Well but it's not going to be another iPhone.

What gets rewarded gets repeated.

Most people find most fields tedious on an expert level.

Used to reading a lot of dry text in detail and retaining the information.

Roll initiative.

Exactly. That means new thoughts and ideas can't ever come from what is currently called Ai.

I'm just here to say I don't want to read AI generated texts. Not even when marked as such. I prefer human to human communication. Generation quality isn't there yet by a long shot.

Hey! I got my diagnosis the same age as you are now.

I think giving those struggles a name and knowing what to Google for when looking up help, that is adding adhd to search, made things a bit easier.

Plus knowing I'm not lazy and incompetent is nice. My brain works in a way which makes daily life as most people have it tricky is all.

For me when I get tasks thrown at me while doing something, I just stop. That doesn't work for me at all.

I need all tasks upfront, then I make a list and order how I'll do them, hopefully. My partner and I both know this and adjust accordingly. But we've been doing this since way before my or her diagnosis.

We both found out in our mid thirties we got adhd. I got diagnosed when I was treated for depression. When reading up on it I basically diagnosed my wife and she got properly diagnosed a while after.

TLDR for your issue Imo In the end it doesn't matter if it's an adhd thing or now. Talk it out and find a way to distribute tasks which works for both of you.

Yes. Sounds like I can stop trying to understand and save a lot of trouble for myself.

Many people say this. However of those who talk the talk, barely any ever walk the walk.

However I think if you are born an heir to a billionaire, you'd lack the perspective which might foster selfless philanthropy.

I'd like to think that if someone from the working class would randomly get such money they would. But it still seems unlikely.

I've tried it a few times but so far it made things worse. Knowing there is a timer running just distracts me so much. Like I want to look at it or at least I think about it all the time.

It's totally fine if a group of people who never played just start though.

First time GM with first time players. That's how I think most groups started before online play became so common.

The good thing about TTRPGs is that even in that scenario, they are still great fun.

Gary?

Ah, just one more turn.

Okay one more turn.

One last tu.... Fuck the suns up.

Just going for a walk often resolves this for me. It often inspires me to do something and gets me into a doing things mode.

Also if it doesn't, then no harm done. Fresh air and a bit of sun didn't hurt.

No structures or inspiration needed. Just walk for a bit.