It's similar to your position. I just have a different path to a stateless, voluntary society. I also don't really care what the economic system looks like, so long as human rights are recognized.
I'm certainly overly reductive of politics. When we're talking ideology, though, yeah I'm going back to my ethics. A government can't act on our behalf with more rights than us - we just end up creating our master. Pragmatic actions, in the real world, are different from ideological conversations, though.
There are voluntarists that believe we are ethically obligated to help each other, but aren't willing to use violence to force others to do what we want.
It's not just for one bad instance, it also forces the government to consider armed resistance to their actions. You also have a private right to defend yourself.
When we were gearing up for a contract they started finding things like jelly donuts and mystery shit in our products. No direct damage, but funny as fuck. We voted to strike with two days left of the contract and decided to send us all home and pay us for it.
That's any service where the service provider has the customer over a barrel.