Skip Navigation

InitialsDiceBearhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearhttps://creativecommons.org/publicdomain/zero/1.0/„Initials” (https://github.com/dicebear/dicebear) by „DiceBear”, licensed under „CC0 1.0” (https://creativecommons.org/publicdomain/zero/1.0/)PR
Posts
3
Comments
804
Joined
2 yr. ago

  • I'm a forgiving fan, but am enjoying the hell out of the series. And I'm a middle-aged Midwestern white dude. I don't need representation to get behind a story or the characters.

    And after the first episode I was amused by this thought: "Was Jim Rash the only white character in the episode?"

  • That's it!

    I'd forgotten it was a match 3.

    So imagine you have two of the same color side by side with no gaps.

    You have the same color on the bottom of your current piece.

    You could slam that piece into the matching ones, hoping that they would bounce up and allow all three to match in a row.

    It was the one linux game I had that most friends would ask to play when they came over.

  • An old game that never really took off, Orbz.

    I was one of the best players in the world while it lasted.

    Simple little game, you're a ball and you throw yourself at stars. The more you hit in a row without missing, the better your combo and score.

    Essentially pong, but you play the ball, and it's on a landscape rather than somewhere you fall off and die.

    I made a few levels for it.

    Another was Triptych, which my friends and I called jelly tetris. Imagine tetris but the bits are springy and bounce a bit. It was a blast. Both were commercial games available on Linux at the time, early 2000s.

  • 1990, through a local dialup university system that had security issues.

    Within a few years after that we had home dialup internet.

    In 1998, cable modems came to town. My neighborhood was the beta test area, so I had friends in my living room playing Everquest almost daily.

  • Media has taught us that a first date involves drinking in a bar or restaurant, in part because of movie shorthand. (Dinner and drinks is a date, forget the rest of the evening, we just set the stage to imply the rest.)

    As many others have said, your normal is your normal. Don't let society or Hollywood pressure you into dating 'their way'.

    I met my wife on a date at a coffeehouse near here house. We then went to a pizza place across the street. No alcohol involved, but I did bring a board game into the restaurant with us.

  • I'd give it a shot, but I honestly leave my home only once a week, which makes these types of games less appealing to me.

    I almost never travel either.

    I'd still play a game that let me use/invest in local resources generously, and unlock more areas with travel.

    I'd never be competitive in such a game, but I'm comfortable with that.

  • Permanently Deleted

    Jump
  • What works for you, works for you.

    It may be possible to slowly wean yourself off of these behaviors that are worrying you. If it's down to once a month, there isn't as much of a jump to zero times a month, but maybe sometime. And then once it's been a year, congratulate yourself for that and keep going.

    Habits are hard to break and much easier to fall into. But if you are more conscious of these decisions, it all becomes a little bit easier with time.

    That kind of mindfulness is a skill that is hard to develop, but your post leads me to think you're already on your way.