Have you ever felt a imaginary switch click that changed the trajectory of your life?
Phoonzang @ Phoonzang @lemmy.world Posts 0Comments 70Joined 2 yr. ago
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That switch flipped a few years ago. Unfortunately it only did so after my mother passed away, but I suddenly realised that I don't need my dad's approval in my life. And that he's a toxic narcissist which I don't have to like or have in my life. Understanding that, I could unravel a lot of crap from my childhood, which helps understanding some things that are wrong with me today. I guess the switch that flips when you understand that your parents don't necessarily need to be good for you is a really important one.